LIFE MATTERS: A Happy & Successful Life

Life is full of chances, choices, and changes. The change in our life depends on the choices we make from the chances we have available. The first time (Sometimes) a chance happens by itself, and other times we have to make it. The first time a change happens by itself, and in the second time, it happens according to the first choice and change. This process repeats itself before and even after the death of a person. In short, life is a repeatable process where chances bring choices and choices bring changes, and as a result, it transforms us. It’s the fundamental law of life. It’s the fundamental law of the soul. Every one of us has life energies in oneself. The existing life energy results from your existing life conditions and forces, but if you want to improve it or change it in the way you want, then you must improve or change existing conditions and forces. Change is an inevitable part of life, but we can choose what kind of change we want to bring into our life. That’s our choic...

Nothing remains the same forever in our lives. Everything changes sooner or later. Only a thing that is never going to change is a change itself. All creatures including human beings who born on this planet must die one day. From womb to tomb, only we are doing is experiencing the life at the will of ours and our people. Find that will, find that choice, find that thing which gives you the most valuable gift that could be remembered as a legacy. The best way to live life is to live every day like never been before. All people want to have the life they desire for their own happiness and success. However, having the life we ever thought could be possible is not so easy to get by a chance; we have to act towards it with a great enthusiasm and deliberate effort. The 10Ps of getting all we want in our life are briefly described here. 1.  Purpose:  The purpose is something we want to get. If we don’t know what we want to have, who we want to become and why we want to get it ...

Only the way to live your life in the fullest for the lifetime is to open up your subconscious mind (a resourceful state of mind) by using the conscious mind (Judgemental state of mind). When we combine both, it becomes unclear or confusion or chaos in the mind and so as to get a manifestation of life, you have to avoid your most unclear ignorant part of the mind to see the clarity or right purpose of life. It’s quite a mysterious for many of us since we do not know much about it and we ignore the power residing within us. It can be simplified by an example that when you go into the darkest room where the level of darkness is higher than that of lightness, you won’t see anything, but then when the same room is supplied with enough lightness then you can see what’s there. The same thing happens with our mind. My question is what are you doing with your existing mind?  Are you supplying darkness or lightness to your mind?  If there is more lightness then darkness disappears b...

We have always been taught in a business school that business results/profits depend on inputs such as men, machine, material, money, management, and processing how things are being done. It means our business results or performance fundamentally rely on these 5Ms and processing. Like businesses, there are the essential things that are likely to determine the life results which I think are even bigger than business results.  I am not saying that business results have no value at all. Indeed, it had, it has and it will have but nothing is more valuable than the value of life. Your life exists so do other things. Now the question is what will determine the value of life? How does life give you the things you want? Both happiness and success cannot be bought. They have to be earned. For that, we have to be competent or right enough to earn.  It might be complicated for many of us at first but once we understand it, it seems easier than we ever thought it could be. Like ...

Most of us tend to be happier, wealthier and successful and many more in life. However, getting these things all of a sudden is not possible for many of us. So we always struggle to get these things as we have been programmed or conditioned knowingly or unknowingly by someone or ourselves in a way, we can only be happy with the possession of more materialistic things such as a branded car, watches, bigger house, more money. But have you ever thought about how to be happy with what you have now? If yes, it’s good and if you don’t know then don’t worry, I will tell a secret, how to be that. You must be heard the name of Gautam Buddha who had said, "There is no path to happiness: happiness is the path". Similarly, the greatest philosopher, Aristotle once said, "Happiness depends upon ourselves". Whether you agree or not but most of us have been programmed to be happier only when we get that, when our expectations get fulfilled. That’s what I call it conditioning...

The question, what matters most in life, is the question I always wanted to know, wanted to be answered but who is going to answer was still the next question. As I started to ask one after one question like that, I found a thousand questions on a queue, to be answered, and get frustrated in search of the answer for a while. However, one thing I did during those dark years was I never stopped asking or giving up because I knew I was on the right track, I knew I would find the answer, by hook or crook. Then something magical things started to happen?          Every blur vision that I had in my past has started to go a little by little and it is being superseded by clarity in the same ratio. Owing to this, now I have been able to know a clear sense of direction, a true purpose of my life, better than before. Holding the same question in the mind for many years, I just came to figure out what that matters most in life: HAPPINESS and then SUCCESS. ...